Magazine society

Today lets talk about , other people , and why we shouldn't care about what others think . Not just the people around you but society in general . Society tells us how to look , act , and what to wear ... The list is endless ... Are we just trying " to fit in "

Everything boils down to our security . But being unique is what makes you amazing . I mean , who wants a cookie cutter society ? 

The only opinions that matter are those who will be attending your funeral . If this is not so for your audience of hecklers then don't give them the time of day . 

My point is - to be you . 

- agent orange 

The Hard Facts

I want everyone to listen up and listen good . I don't care what the excuse is you find , you need to understand if he isn't chasing you or asking for your attention , move on . If they cared , loved you enough , or we're simply interested enough they would make it clear .( booty calls don't count ) . So listen unless you want to learn the hard way . Cut it and wait for someone worth your time .
It should go two ways between two people ...

- Agent Orange

Time

Sometimes in any situation there is no control . Nothing can change pain , or situations . All we have is our friends , so lean on them . The one lesson I learned this month is love your enemies when they are down and out . Remember that , the love you give is in not expecting anything in return ( repeat that last sentence more than once ) 

If you can do these simple things , it will make the biggest changes in your life . You will gain new friends , new perspectives , and learn and teach unconditional love ;) 

- Agent Orange 

The Way They Are

Hello Ladies and Gents ,

Today's blog is called personally . Why , because this about dealing with people who do not treat you right . The guy who disrespects you , the friend who puts you down , even a boss . So first off the first thing we need to learn is do not take everything personally . I'm not saying some things aren't personal but so much that we take , we think is .

Everyone has issues , some people take them out on others . We feel down about it . Well , don't . You can't control nor take away others misery . My advice is stick around good people who love and support you .

You can't change anyone . The more you try the more you blame you . My advice is walk away with your self esteem and sanity .

- Agent Orange

Doing The Impossible

I watched the VMA's in horror last night , wondering what happened to music ? Naked woman gyrating about with lip syncing synthesizers , and layers of make up . I'm left asking myself , are we selling music , art , or sex ? 

We look down on today's teen girls and their 23 year old mini's they hide in back packs changing in the bathrooms , we wonder where it all went wrong ? 

Who are our role models ? I'm getting to my point right now .....

I spend maybe ten minutes on make up . Although I'm more tom boy then princess 

Don't get me wrong I have my princess moments . 

Even I ,not obsessed with main stream , find myself staring at these woman thinking .. Should I buy $500.00 worth of make up , try harder every day to look like this ? 

The world today is a magazine add . It's swollowing hearts , integrity , justice , and real beauty in this world . 

My point is what ever it is you see in the mirror , see it for who you are . Not the adds or gyrating princess whorres on MTV . 

Look for real beauty ! We can all teach young girls beauty comes from so many other things ... 

Believe in who you are ;) 

- Agent Orange 

The Big Lie

How to get over a lost love . 

I think many of us struggle with this one , on so many levels . If your talking real love , true love , well then .. You probably tried crying , panick attacks , movies , music , googling , writing , drinking , friends , dating , hobbies , no matter what we end up at square one right ? 

Sitting every where and any where in that one quiet moment where our ex love is sitting invisibly across from us , and it's just apart of our every day lives . 

We sit and count other exes .. They are filed away in the I can careless Q . But this one , this one sits quietly in our corner . We don't know why . And then again yes , we do . They had our heart . 

Fate is cruel master of deception . We wonder how she plays her part and why . But the only answer I have to the burning question you all have is quite easy . 

You don't . Don't let them go . 

They taught you to love so deeply , they are still with you . They got you to risk , they did a lot , keep your heart open . 

Hold on to their precious gift . 

That's my gift to you today ;) 

- Agent Orange 

Set It On Fire

We wonder through our day , 24 hours pass us by so quickly . How many times do we stop to ask our selves about the relationships we have in our lives . Do we give to those around us ? Do we just receive what is given ? Are we numb ? 

Life is a precious gift we have one time . Do not let fear or pain rob you of the hour glass that streams effortlessly and unforgiving on your bed side table . 

Do not waste time seeking attention from people who do not care to give it back to you . Your past is your past , it's the old story , keeping you from the new story . I know , it hurts . It hurts a lot . But go ahead look in the mirror ... Look now ! Someone loves your eyes and your smile and if you don't believe me I promise it's true . As soon as you let go of what's hurting you , it will appear back in that mirror . 

Have you ever walked down a street reading a book ? Not noticing what's around you ? 

Your reading an old story and everyone is watching . Put the book down !!!

That love is waiting , maybe a new job , a smile , a joy , so many things . 

So go write down all the the things that are causing you sadness or pain since you can ever remember . Then tear it up ! Burn it ! Yes burn it ! And never visit it again ! 

Then write down new goals focus on those !!! 

Cheers to a new story !

- Agent Orange