How many times do we put our trust in someone because they promise they will be careful with our hearts ? Those quiet careful egg shell steps we take and we decide to give it a shot , then in one moment with out warning they disappear like you never mattered at all , maybe you have someone who cheated or lied .
Your plagued with disappointment , and confusion .
What is their to do ? You think why ?
The one thing I think we need to do is take a long hard look in our own mirror .
You say Amy that makes no sense , it wasn't our fault . True , I agree . But is there a such thing as all of the sudden ?
Maybe we need to chose more carefully .
Maybe they weren't treating that great ,
Maybe they were but they had a lot of personal issues . We tend to ignore those issues because they told us , " trust me."
Then the worst happens . I can tell you three things , I know we sit in shock and pain , lose sleep and wonder . But if you remember these three things I promise it will help
1. They did you a favor .
Do you want to be with someone who cares so little about you they can't say good bye ? No explanation at all .
Someone who is a coward who cheated and ruined your trust ?
Is that the kind of life you deserve ? No
2. Love yourself . I know we sit and think where we went wrong . But it's not you it's them . If there was an issue with you they wouldn't leave or cheat , they would recognize that you matter and they would communicate with you .
3. Keep your focus on your daily goals
Nothing will feel better or keep you moving forward like achieving what your meant to do . Be positive and the right person will come along .
I'm sorry someone tried to break you ,
That just means they were broken themselves . Don't ignore the signs next time , most importantly keep your chin up
It's their loss any way -