So I'm laying here at 11pm , in my bed . My precious daughter tucked under my arm and today begins to disapate in her warmth . I'm guided today to once again visit some things my dear loved ones are experiencing . I feel like I need to be your criminal here and break in your heads and rattle things up a bit ....
First go get a pen and paper . Go - I'm waiting . Don't roll your eyes at me either .
So you ready ?
Erase your other half out of your mind . They don't exist -
Write down everything you want In another person .
Then write down what you need from a relationship .
Whatever it is write it down !!!!!
Let's introduce your other half . The one who isn't committing , the one who leaves you confused .
The one who gives you mixed messages .
Check off your list what that person gives you .
Are they available emotionally ? No ?
Well they can't exaxtly love you , can they ?
Are they filling your boxes ?
As hard as it is to write this -
Look in the mirror ? Go ! Look !!!!
Your pretty hot right ? Have a lot to give ? Right ?
Why are you waisting your time ?!!!! When you could have the whole list ?
Plus more ?!!!!
If you died tomorrow - who would be at your funeral ? What impact did they have on your life ?
You know exaxtly what to do , but you hold on to crumbs instead of going after the whole pie .....
So -go make your dreams happen -
It's their loss
- Agent Orange