Online Dating

I don't care who met on match or eharmony or tinder , online dating is bull@&) . Sorry , it's true . True love is chemistry not match pictures and personality . It just becomes a cyber sex rotation for single people ...

Then you go back online to find them once again in your dirty pool .

Wait for the right person in real life
- Agent Orange

Disappointment

I think today's blog will be about disappointment . I think that it's all in how we view others . Disappointment comes in so many forms . A father misses his sons game , a love interest dosent quite love you back or someone cheated you . The list goes on and on .....

I think this should be handled carefully , don't you ? Take a step back , be you in their shoes and re valuate the situation . Sometimes people are in a dark place . Is that an excuse for their behavior ? No probably not . But my point is understanding it . That way when you leave the situation it's not as devastating .

It's rough I know . Some of us have been through hurricanes and disappointment .
But trying to understand will help you heal and move on .

Carpe Diem my friends

-Agent Orange

The Big Question

This weeks blog is about deciphering what does and does not make sense . How many times in our lives are we faced with a situation that , just makes absolutely no sense . In my comings and goings I deal with this everyday . My friends bound with these questions with no answers . Why did he leave ? Why didn't she call ? Why did they die ? We are left with a void and no peace . All because of the big " why " .

I don't sleep . I'll beat myself up .....
Nothing brings the answer .

I have the answer . If it doesn't make sense it's simply not meant to be .
All stories have a beginning and an end . Did you ever read a book that ended in the middle ?

Satan is the author of confusion the bible says .
So if it makes sense whether it works or not then , it's supposed to be apart of our story .
If it dosent , start a new chapter to finish your own ending .

It's hard sometimes . But trust me it's the truth .

- Agent Orange

What's love

Today I'm sitting in a bar waiting for my lunch . Through the hustle of the day in this warm atmosphere I would like to talk about lost love . That one , the " one " . It didn't work out . But do we hold on ? Or let go ?

The answer is hold on . You find something rare , cherish it . It doesn't mean hold on to them per say, but it's alright to have this hidden in your heart . It's yours , it's special ...

Keep it

- Agent Orange

It's Only 10

Let's address ten horrible things not to do to someone else in dating . This is for men and woman . I compiled this from dating horror stories and heart felt conversations

I revised this list :

Do not ask a girl for money - I'm not sure what any gentleman with integrity would do this , but since I just currently dealt with this in a new relationship was asked twice for money , and I paid for dates . So lessons above all , men If their really liking you should care about putting their best foot forward , not having you impress or take care of them . Your not their mom or wife , or to be used . You have value a man should treat you with value and respect .



1. Don't play games . Just be you . Period end of story .

2. Be honest . This is hard for many but were all human so be one

3. Integrity , have it . Follow through on your word or don't give it

4. Don't be late .

5. Don't swear when your getting to know someone to me it's base

6. Be up front ! Don't string people on

7. Don't leave with out goodbye . Whether it's 1 week or 5 years everyone deserves to know why

8. If your going to surprise someone do it , everyone loves sweet surprise

9. These rules don't apply to one night stands

10. Don't say you want something more if it's just a hook up

11. Be a friend . I mean after all , like I said were all human so be a kind one

- agent orange

Today's Trend not for me ...

Today I couldn't think of what to write . So I thought of writing about the question us girls ask our selves , is it better to date one or many ? Call me old fashion but I date one person at a time . I see where it goes and if it dosent work then it dosent work . Maybe I'm independent im not to sure , but the idea of putting myself into 5 people seems exhausting ! And confusing . My girls push me in the date a bunch at a time , but I just can't . I'm ready to settle down . I think it depends on what your looking for ? What is your preference ? What ever makes you smile I suppose ;)

Agent Orange

The Bigger Picture

Today we will talk about what I've discussed so many times before . How to deal with a confusing situation . In this I mean , he or she left with no word no reason , or you been with them along time and there is no talk about feelings . Whatever it may be , integrity is lacking . Of course they said , they have integrity , Of course they called all the time . So what went wrong ? I don't know ? You don't know , your friends don't know , neither does Google or Siri ....

What we do know is .. Who cares !!!! Tell yourself that every time you miss them . Because if they cared about you , you wouldn't be sick to your stomach wondering why ! And they would've had the balls to tell you .

Yea ... If they were worth it they would say : hey it's not working because x y Zzzz ....

So , if your up at night wondering what you did wrong to make them leave you , they weren't worth it any way because a true friend would've told you ...


So f u

- Agent Orange